In the Closet, Out of my Damn Mind!!

Hey Hey Hey! It's Monday and as promised in my last post, I would like to introduce to you all a really cool guy with a really cool blog!

His name is Trey and his blog, In The Closet, Out of my Damn Mind!! is quite the read! After coming across his blog in a featured post Cold Phoenix did a while back. I read one of his early posts, and ended up reading through all of them!

What I love most about his blog is how personable he is; he really let's you "get inside his head" (no pun intended). He has his share of sexual adventures and writes about them well (eh, I get a woody, so...)

After emailing back and forth, I decided that I finally want to start doing those Q n A posts from followers/fellow bloggers (I've talked about doing it before, if you remember).

So, sit back, listen to: And I by Ciara (my gift to you: )
and enjoy the interview!

If you could direct a 3-way scene with ANY 3 porn stars, who would they be and why?
Lex, Ace Rockwood, and Phat Daddy. Lex would be the bottom and Ace and Phat Daddy would tag team that ass. I would also make Phat Daddy get out of his Tiger Tyson-esque role where he doesn’t kiss or perform any kind of oral. I would have him eating the hell out of Lex’s ass! I would pick these three because they are hella sexy to me. Lex is versatile and can take some good dick. Ace is a very passionate fuck and Phat Daddy is more of a rough fuck. I think it would be an interesting dynamic with these three. 

Would you ever do porn? Do you have any Xtube vids?

While I greatly, and I mean GREATLY, appreciate the art of 
porn…its just not for me. I couldn’t put myself out there like that. I find sex to be intimate (call me old-fashioned. LoL) I don’t think I could have an off screen partner and have our relationship have any real substance in the physical department. Seems like screwinghim would just be another day at the office. I don’t have any Xtube vids uploaded, but I have made a few camera
phone vids here and there ;). The shit is hot, it makes you feel like you are putting on a performance or something. 

Quickest way to get you out them drawz?
And they are boxer briefs to be more specific ;). I would have to say being aggressive and forthcoming about what you want. Also I’m a sucker for foreplay and all that good shit. Thinking you’re just going straight to the ass without putting any work in is a waste of your time. Basically, I like for a dude to make me want it…to make me not be able to wait any longer. And if you play a sexy ass hip-hop song in the process, its just icing on the cake. 

Top 3 Deal Breakers?

1. Femininity- 
Yeah, I know we should respect and appreciate each other in our community and yadda yadda. I do, just
not sexually. As someone who leans more towards the bottom role, I find it unattractive to have a feminine guy try to top me. I couldn’t even get turned on. 

2. Too conservative with no sense of humor is an ultimate deal breaker. I can sometimes have a twisted sense on humor and I need someone who can not only appreciate it, but join in from time to time. Me and a stuck up muhfucka wouldn’t make it past hello.

3. I do not like cigarette smoke. Its not necessarily an automatic deal breaker…but its close. I hate the smell on my body, in my clothes, and in my car. There are some people who respect non-smokers in this matter. However, there are a lot of smokers who could care less and that’s they type of dude I would have to leave alone. 

How often do you use Condoms? Anyone you trust enough to let them hit Raw?
Every time. I don’t understand the thought process of people who don’t use them during sex. The risk is too great…to me anyway. Don’t get me wrong, I have had two “slip ups” with my ex. It was a bad decision then,
and I still think it is now. The first time, the condom broke at the base and the second time we were using a Durex condom and it was too small for him. Still, not an excuse and very different from purposely going raw. We were in a committed relationship and I trusted him. However, this is my health we are talking about. I don’t trust anyone enough to put my health at risk. 

 Do you ever want to “come out”? How do you think your Pops would react?
I actually do, believe it or not. Not saying I will anytime soon, or ever. However, I want to be able to have the option of not only living my life freely, but comfortably as well without all the hiding and shit. I don’t think my Pops would give two shits. He’s very accepting in that department…very liberal. I think he would be more upset I felt I couldn’t tell him sooner.

Favorite Love songs? (any genre). What movies have you’ve cried on?
My favorite love song of all time is 

If This World Were Mine (Luther Vandross)

My Cherie Amour (Stevie Wonder) comes in a close second.

My favorite, more sexual songs, would have to be 

Seduction (Usher) that shit is just mad sexy 

Do or Die (Fantasy)

Candy Man (Dirty Boyz)

Lay Down (Floetry) just Marsha's part though

And of course there are more! I have only cried on two movies. I'm too hard for that shit! LoL! But seriously, they were the 1950’s version of “Imitation of Life” and a little known movie called “A Walk to Remember” with Mandy Moore. I suggest Imitation of Life to anyone who hasn’t seen it, or heard of it…it’s a classic.

 Any special talents? (sing, dance, etc.?) Although the Snap-Movement has come and gone, how many
“crank dances” can you do? (Crank dat Batman, Superman, etc.)
Naw, I’ve never been one to sing and dance. While I am a music lover, I can’t contribute at all. LoL I did play baseball and soccer when I was younger. I was always more of an academic. I can, however, do the
Superman…only because they taught us a freshmen orientation. 

What 4 things can you NOT live without? (cell phone, tv, best friend, etc.)

1.  My laptops. 
They literally hold my life. They have all of my schoolwork, music, videos, pictures and a lot of other memories. 
Plus, the internet is my gateway to the outside world…and more recently the “blogosphere”.

2. My earphones. 
I need to take them bad boys everywhere. Anytime I’m in a mood I need some melodic treatment. If I don’t have them with me I feel naked. I have to be able to play my music anytime and anyplace. 

3. My homie, by best friend. Me and this chick have been tight for a few years. Nobody, but probably my ex, has
my back like her. I can count on her for anything man. I know I can confide in her without being judged and my business and shit getting out. I’ll bust a head for that chick.

4. Family. 
Being from the south most of my life, family is a big part of my life. We are very close and are always having functions. I don’t know what I would do if I didn’t have them around. 


There ya'll have it! Check out his blog (the link is up above) and follow this dude! 

btw, the pics below are two of my favorite guys he mentioned above: Phat Daddy and Ace Rockwood!

'til next time I get some WiFi!